It Takes A Village

I was just watching a TiVoed segment from yesterdays Today show (I don’t normally record the Today Show but there was an interview with Daniel Radcliff about the Harry Potter and the Order of the Phoenix movie that I wanted to watch) that mentioned how the majority of mothers are overstressed and therefore unhappy. Well I am pleased to report on this issue, I remain a minority. And it is in no small part due to the amazing people in my life.

I am a firm believer in the old adage that “it takes a village to raise a child.” While on day to day matters from diaper changes to middle of the night feedings, I may be the representing member of the village, the majority of the time I have help, or at the very least, support. I am surrounded by wonderful people who really step up to make my life what it is and I just want to take a moment to that them for all that they do.

Thank you to my best friend, Heather, who has been there for me going on 15 years. She is always there whether I need a coffee break, a trip to the zoo, or just some time to vent.

To my girlfriends, Megan, Kimberly, and Kerry “with a K,” who support me in my Harry Potter addiction and are willing to talk for hours on end theorizing about the series, critiquing the movies, or even discussing the merits of Sirius Black’s butt.

To Carole, Chelle, Jen, and the mothers in my playgroups who remind me that I am not alone in this and are always there with a lovely anecdote, some motherly advice or even just a friendly smile.

To Freedom, a friend and co-worker, who, asking for nothing in return, offered to babysit Ana yesterday so Simeon and I could watch the latest Harry Potter movie.

To Megs, who gets me out of the house, keeps me sane, and never fails to bring a smile to Ana’s face.

To my family who are always there when I need them, are willing to do anything for me in a moments notice, and who never fail to stop in for a welcomed visit.

To Simeon, who supports me in all that I do, loves me unconditionally, and allows me to have the perfect life that we have created together. For being the kind of husband who never forgets a birthday or anniversary, who always puts me first, and who never forgets to put his dirty clothes in the laundry. For being the kind of father who never misses one of Ana’s doctor appointments, who takes off from work early to watch a Baby & Me swim class, and who is always willing to let me “tag out.”

To my beautiful baby girl, Ana, who has changed my life in the most amazing way, who never fails to make me laugh, and is the first person who had actually caused me to cry tears of happiness.

I love you all and am so happy you are a part of my life, a part of my village. Thank you.

7 thoughts on “It Takes A Village

  1. I am so glad I can help you fit into the minority on this one. You are a wonderful person and a great mom. I am very fortunate that you enjoy this new role in our lives.

    Thanks for always looking to the positive in all that you do. You Rock Wifey!

  2. It’s been so wonderful to be your friend and to see you love your roll as a mom. I love reading your letters to Ana. You are amazing!

  3. Here here to the wonderful person I’ve always loved in you, and the wonderful mother you’ve so quickly become. I have absolutely, and will always love, being a part of it all more than you will ever know. Here’s to another 15 and more! I’ve also enjoyed getting to know the other girlfriends in your life the little bit that I’ve been able to, and I hope to get the chance to get to know them even better. Yay for the village! 🙂

  4. Carrie, you don’t even know how honored I am to be part of your life. I wish more than anything I was able to spend more time with you and your family, but the time I do get to spend, I cherish. Thank you for being so warm, welcoming, and wonderful! 🙂

  5. Wow-I too feel honored to be included in this grouping <:-) You’re a great model for remembering how amazingly positive family can-and should-be. Also, I am equally honored to be in any paragraph containing explicit reference to Sirius’s british behind, and welcome any opportunity (say, this coming Friday?!) to discuss said topics further.

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